|Volume 2 Issue 12|
We often think of the month of December as a celebratory time. A friend once told me there are over 25 different holidays, both religious and secular, in November, December and January. While I have not confirmed this, I’m not surprised that this is a busy time of year. People can become overwhelmed with the many things to do, people to see and places to go.
Holidays often provide time to gather together with families and friends and allows for times to connect with our loved ones. Despite the season being a time of joy and celebration, feelings of sadness and stress may build. Some may feel increased financial stress. During holidays, some of us have lost parents, siblings, children or friends, and we may feel an increase in the pain of those losses. Some people may feel they aren’t important, that they have no value. Thoughts of suicide might also surface.
This season, look at yourself. Look at your family, your loved ones. If stress is increasing, make time for fun or exercise – make snow angels, play a game of cards, watch a movie together, go for a walk in the park, do something for others like helping at food bank. Remember to manage your own stress and watch for stress in others. Talk about your feelings. If necessary, call the Suicide Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 (English or Spanish). What you choose to do this holiday season can keep you celebrating and looking forward. Happy Holidays to everyone!
|December 15, 2016|
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Kathleen “Kathy” Brook is the Administrative Assistant for the Montana ASPIRE Project in Helena. Kathy grew up in California but attended college at Montana State University-Bozeman, where she earned her degree in Elementary Education. Kathy taught school in Montana and North Dakota, and worked as a substitute teacher while raising her family. Kathy also worked for the local newspaper. Just prior to her employment with ASPIRE, she worked within Disability Employment and Transitions (the same office that houses the Montana ASPIRE Project) as an administrative assistant, transferring to ASPIRE in August 2014.
Kathy has been married for 40 years and is the mother of four grown children and grandmother to four grandchildren. In her free time she is active in various fraternal organizations and loves spending time with family.
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ASPIRE is excited to partner with the following agencies:
“The youth I had his first try at employment this past summer when he signed up for the Governor's Summer Job Hunt. When his summer employment ended, he was anxious to get another job. He truly loved the feeling of working hard and having his paycheck!
For the last month, this youth has been applying for different jobs at Recreation Centers, grocery stores, restaurants, and anything in between. Two weeks ago, he called to tell me he had an interview with King Sooper's. I met with him two hours before his interview to practice questions. Afterwards, he texted me saying that every mock interview question we had practiced, was asked during the interview.
A week later, this youth texted me to meet him at his school. I was able to swing by during his lunch hour. He told me that he finally landed a job, and could not have done it without my support. This youth starts right before Christmas time and is excited to have some "bread money in his pocket" as he stated.”
ASPIRE Colorado youth are accomplishing great thing with the assistance from their Case Managers.
In addition to monthly meetings, families have had the opportunity to participate in trainings this year offered through ASPIRE and other organizations. Most recently families attended the Montana Youth Transitions conference, where they learned about transition planning, decision making and planning for age 18 Social Security changes, and more. One family reports, “It was an amazing experience! We both learned so much!”
Understanding the changes that occur at age 18 caught the eye of one ASPIRE family recently. They had lost contact with ASPIRE for almost a year due to an unexpected family crisis. After numerous attempts to reconnect with the family, ASPIRE sent a letter to them explaining the importance of understanding the changes when this youth turns age 18 in the coming months. Several information items were included: a checklist of things to consider such as redetermination, transfer of rights, benefits planning and guardianship. This was enough to spark the family’s interest and they immediately contacted ASPIRE to reconnect.
We are eager to offer families the gift of hope for a better tomorrow. ASPIRE Montana wishes all our families and partners a joyous holiday season and a happy new year! For more information on upcoming trainings and resources in Montana, check out the ASPIRE Montana webpage at http://aspirewest.org/montana.
Logan’s parents were very interested in the resources ASPIRE could provide. They attended Parent Resources for Pre-Employment Training (PREPT). Shortly after this training Logan had his Individualized Education Plan (IEP) meeting where they were able to advocate for his needs. They requested a change from wiping tables in the cafeteria, which he disliked, to delivering papers from the school office to the classrooms, which he enjoys and is more appropriate. The family met with the Benefits Planner several times; she assisted them in navigating the Social Security Administration (SSA) system after Mom and Stepdad married. The ASPIRE financial trainer has been in contact with the family, and they will meet before the end of the year to begin financial and asset building trainings. In just six short months, this ASPIRE family has participate in almost every intervention offered by ASPIRE!
The ASPIRE Case Manager is assisting the family with their current goal to get an industrial swing installed for Logan in the family’s back yard to replace an older, less stable swing. The family has secured funds for the swing and now the team is looking installation funds. Logan loves to swing and he will bundle up even in the cold winter weather and head out to swing!
Recently, an ASPIRE young man dropped out of school. His mother tried to encourage him to do online classes, but he wasn’t interested. Last week, he and his mother met with a Benefits Counselor. Without knowing his current educational situation, the Specialist talked with him about the importance of continuing his schooling because it will provide him opportunities to earn more money and become more independent in the future. The Specialist also explained how the work incentives could be of value for him and his family. After hearing this, the young man expressed more enthusiasm about furthering his education. He spoke with more conviction about pursuing a technical degree in welding or diesel mechanics. He is on the waiting list for Vocational Rehabilitation services and will hopefully begin services very soon. Thanks to this Benefits Specialist, everyone is now looking forward to the future, and furthering his education and career goals.
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